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CAFE TAC How to Leave a Job Gracefully Discussion - Shared screen with speaker view
Misako
10:41
Good morning/afternoon, everyone. Wow, last session. This has been a terrific webinar!
Jeremy - CAFE TAC
14:15
Hi!
Misako
16:04
Glad for Elise's optimal self-care to ditch Countryman Enterprises.
Jeremy - CAFE TAC
16:26
I might have to sue her.
Misako
16:39
LOL
John Ferrone
23:12
Another company: Traitor Jeremy's
Misako
24:32
Solid tips for leaving a job gracefully. They apply to most any work situation. But how to handle m.h. issues, which the employer knows about/has made accommodations for and realizes that the m.h. issues are part of why you're leaving. A non-issue? Especially if H.R. is the only reference one gives to a potential new employer.
Misako
25:08
Elise's tips right now are helpful, such as referencing a positive relationship with a particular supervisor, etc.
Misako
26:16
Right. I don't want my m.h. condition to jeopardize my work reputation going forward.
Misako
28:27
The "Interview" session covered this well, too.
Misako
29:17
Great points, Elise.
Jeremy - CAFE TAC
32:17
Setting boundaries can be empowering!
Etsegenet M Teodros
33:49
Any type of boundries have changed my feelings of obligations and for seeking better opportunities.
Etsegenet M Teodros
35:52
Especially when many of the opportunities have been through being involved on those various platforms.
Etsegenet M Teodros
38:07
It does help it is MH related and lived experience specific it causes same kind of stress at times.
Misako
38:07
Etsegenet: I agree. My mh has actually strengthened and clarified my healthy boundaries. It's made me feel even more in control of my needs relative to the work I'm going after -- like any kind of physical health needs that may apply. Pro-active exit strategies.
Misako
38:28
Such good tips, Elise.
Etsegenet M Teodros
44:05
Yes this series has walked me through so much of my journey of this whole topic. I was taking the steps while I was applying, interviewing, and getting hired for an contracted position. Great timing.
Misako
45:11
In my mind, I've "simply" outgrown an organization, however solid my relationship with them previously was. So, my sense of obligation is, first and foremost, to my mh and overall well-being. So, my goals have shifted. And I communicate in my exit and in interviews ahead, the appropriate, positive language about my departure and current work objectives. Elise's communication strategies and phrasing is so helpful.
Misako
46:27
I experienced this as a volunteer facilitator for NAMI peer support groups.
Etsegenet M Teodros
47:17
Event recently taking a leap for continuing my education, writing essays, and now accepting an admission. I recently also intervied for a 12 month Peer Fellow position. I was doing all this as the series started. Thank you
Etsegenet M Teodros
50:50
This was super intense and so helpful to my recovery journey.
Misako
52:27
Unfortunately, my initial mentors' unresolved mh-related issues also affected my desire to leave (they failed to deal with a sexual predator in the group). Despite the tremendously positive relationships we had before, they became passively hostile to my VERY responsible and appropriate, discreet communication within my local NAMI organization. So, I just don't use them as references, and use other references instead. Working for m.h. organizations is not in my work sights anyway. So, I was okay with the departure. It was the best thing for me all around. Just sad the other people became unnecessarily hostile.
Misako
53:46
Delicate territory is sometimes out of my control. But I make the best of it I can in the departure process.
Etsegenet M Teodros
55:44
Awesome! New friends.
Misako
55:54
This webinar series has been tremendously helpful to me as I transition back into the workforce after the length of my mh recovery needs.
Etsegenet M Teodros
56:33
Exactly!
Misako
57:54
I greatly appreciate Elise, Jeremy and John's superlative organization of this series, and their rich input throughout. My survey responses will be 10+. (Except for Countryman Enterprises, of course.)
Jeremy - CAFE TAC
58:11
LOL
Jeremy - CAFE TAC
58:25
We're probably going out of business anyway
Etsegenet M Teodros
58:28
Yes appreciate everyone and creating this safe space.
Misako
58:44
I look forward to future Cafe TAC webinars. The best webinar experience I've ever had, by far. Fantastic work!
Etsegenet M Teodros
58:46
I love my certtificates
Misako
59:04
LOL
Misako
59:22
Thank you immensely! All best to everyone!